Tuesday, January 19, 2010

VENTING.....


So, I have some things to say.
These things go vice/versa.
(When things are in all caps, I'm yelling)

Males do not play with any one's emotions. Let people move on. It's not okay for you to not know what you want when it comes to someone else's feelings. Mixed signals are not okay. It's not any one's problem, but yours that your not mature enough to decide what you really want. Grow up.
Females do not go in circles. Yeah he's a jerk for leading you in these circles, but it's your fault that the circle keeps revolving. You need to realize your worth. You, yeah you deserve to have your own man. You shouldn't have to share the man you truly care about with another girl. If you don't understand this you deserve to be in this dumb cycle.
Females it is okay to cry. Yeah, it's okay. I'm so sick and tired of people telling females not to cry. Crying is a release. You can find some of the best closure by crying.
Males and females please stop cheating. It's pointless. I mean if you really want to do the real thing, just admit that you are not ready for a relationship. Most people would rather be broken up with then to be cheated on.
FEMALES, STOP THE CRAZY SHIT!!!!!! DO NOT SHOW UP UNANNOUNCED. MALES DO NOT LIKE THIS. THIS ACTUALLY SCARES THEM. SO, PLEASE STOP WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD. THINK YOUR CRAZY THOUGHTS, BUT PLEASE DON'T ACT ON THEM. IT'S NOT OKAY AND WHILE WE ARE AT IT, DON'T GO THROUGH ANY ONE'S PHONE BUT YOURS. YOU WILL FIND EXACTLY WHAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR. YOUR ONLY GONNA HURT YOURSELF STUPID.
Males please stop lying about how many girls you are getting. Females know that you are lying. There is also NO NEED FOR YOU TO TALK ABOUT HOW MUCH MONEY YOU ARE GETTING. IF YOU ARE GETTING PLENTY OF MONEY, IT WILL TALK FOR ITSELF. SHUT THE HELL UP ABOUT WHAT YOU GOT UNLESS YOU SHOWING ME SOMETHING I NEVER SEEN BEFORE. SHOW ME A JET THAT YOU OWN AND DO NOT RENT AND THEN MAYBE I CAN LISTEN.
Females please stop making the present significant other pay for the last one's mistakes. This is not okay. It means you have not moved on and should not be dating.
EVERYONE STOP ENTERING RELATIONSHIPS THAT YOU CAN NOT SEE YOURSELF IN FOR THE LONG RUN. I KNOW WE ARE ALL YOUNG, BUT WHAT IS THE POINT OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU CAN'T SEE GROWING. JUST BE SINGLE. YES IT IS OKAY TO BE SINGLE AND WHILE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT SINGLE I HAVE SOMETHING ELSE TO SAY. EVERYONE COULD YOU PLEASE BE HAPPY BY YOURSELF BEFORE YOU TRY TO THROW YOURSELF IN ANY TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP.
Females remember boys will always talk to the girl with less standards when they are not ready for a relationship. It has nothing to do with you, it's just the easier option. Take it as a compliment.
Last, but not least please stop being afraid of love. IT IS OKAY TO FALL IN LOVE.
"Peace,Love&Life"

4 comments:

Tamara said...

YOU ARE PREACHING TODAY HUNNAY! lmaooo But I co-sign completely with this whole post!!

Freckles said...

gotta say that I enjoyed this post.

Melanie! said...

this is all so true..

i like ur blog!

-Melanie

Shakiyah Ivory said...

Thanks soooo much guys....