Friday, April 30, 2010

When In Boredom

Throughout all this boredom I discovered this : "I don't have a twin because the world wouldn't know how to handle it"


Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Baby Lemme Style You....

My closet has been drowned in black lately and I just want to get back to wearing colors. So, this was a start. lol

Baby Lemme Style You....

I saw these pants and fell in love. So, it was only right that I put them with an outfit. You wouldn't want nothing that would battle with the pants, so I kept it simple. The black gives it a bad girl look and the red lipstick is proven to be lethal. You can say tnank you now. lol


Yeah, I'm a student at Howard University. One of the top 100 schools in the Nation and that's an accomplishment in itself. Yes I'm a mentor to a group of high school students in Washington D.C. Yes, I have two blogs that are doing exceptionally well. Yes, I have my own apartment, but I want more. I want to be a business woman. I want for people to look at me and see someone who is accomplishing things. I'm hungry to be handling business. I want to be a publicist, stylist, journalist, and philanthropist. I'm looking for the next move. I want to take it. I'm tired of waiting for an opportunity to arise. I'm ready to make my own break. Right now I'm super hungry. I mean I'm 20 and I don't know about you all, but I know that in 5 years I plan to be well off. I don't have time to waste. Sometimes I feel like I'm standing still and and the world is racing around me. I hate that feeling and I need to do something about it a.s.a.p.

The Whole Nicki Beef Thing

Since, Public Relations is my major I figured I'd talk about all these female rappers that are coming out of the wood works and attacking Nicki Minaj. It's quite funny because everyone seems to forget that when Nicki first started rapping she wasn't animated. She actually can rap and that's how she got to where she is right now. This animated shit is nothing more than acting and is used as a source to entertain people. She actually was a Drama major in high school. Nicki Minaj is talented and if you seriously beg to differ do your research I'm sure you would change your mind. Now I'm sure that a lot of you all don't like the image she displays to little kids, but maybe her music isn't for little kids. If your a parent you can control what they see or hear. I know my parents did.

Now these girls who trying to create "beef" are just trying to get a lot of shine because they know people like drama. They are trying to get recognized because they know people are attracted to drama. They want to get signed too. So when Nicki does not release a track to battle with them don't think she's scared. She just doesn't have to defend herself against them. I mean who are they?!!? No one. They can't mess with her money, so why would she help these girls get a little fame off her name. Nicki is doing what anyone with common sense would do. The only beefs that get responses are those between two established people. None of these girls are any competition as of now.


Who told them this was okay? I literally shook my head at this video.Rasheeda sounds like a horrible Nicki Minaj. Toya I love you, but you aren't a rapper. Kandi your too old for this. Lola Monroe do I really have to say anything about you? This is foolishness.

Monday, April 26, 2010

20 Things for my 20th Birthday

Now that I'm no longer a teen I have some things to say. I hope that you would read & enjoy.

1. Always stay grounded. No matter how good your life is don't forget what made you who you are because everything could be taken away from you in a split second.

2. Never hesitate to tell the person you love that you "love them" because you never know what may happen.

3. Never ever let a past relationship make you scared to fall in love. You might find your fairytale when you least expect it.

4. Don't mix brown and black. I really hate that ish. lol

5. Get a twitter. Trust me you will have things to say.

6. Put God first and your life will be sweeter.

7. If you are going to go to Howard realize that you will have to grind. This school is a life lesson. Yeah, you get an education, but that's not the greatest thing you receive here.

8. You only live once. Remember that.

9. Be loyal. Karma is a high blower when you do the wrong things.

10. Work hard, but play harder. You never want to spend your whole life working. It's meant to be enjoyed.

11.Life is about making things happen. Things will go wrong, but you gotta make things happen. Your life is only gonna turn out the way you allow it.

12. It's not about finding the perfect man that does no wrong. It's about finding the right one that you can grow with.

13.Everyone makes mistakes. It's about learning from them so they wont be mistakes, they'll be learning experiences.

14. Never do anything that you don't want to do. It's your life you don't have to please everyone.

15. You can do whatever you please. It's just about putting the work in to make it happen.

16. Everyone needs some alone time. Don't allow others to drain you out.

17. Your homegirls and you man do not need to be best of friends.

18. Trust is to be earned not given.

19. Things have to get bad sometimes, so you can appreciate the good.

20. Believe in yourself no matter what anyone says. If you don't believe in yourself who will?

Monday, April 12, 2010

Do I Want That Old Thing Back?

I keep getting this question & I don't know why, but I figured I'll put all that I know about it here so I can make it clear.

Every time my friends get drunk they ask me "Do I miss or still love my ex or whatever you want to call him?"

Of course I still love him, but I'm definitely not in love with him. I'm still his friend and since I'm single we still tend to hang out, but I think I can honestly say I'm over him. Yeah I'm past the idea of us being together because he made it clear that I wasn't what he wanted. Your probably wondering why I still hang with him though. Well even though he never wanted a relationship with me he never "not wanted" me. I always see him as being confused about what he wanted and although I could be the best thing for him he obviously was not the best thing for me. I'll always sparkle in his eye because of who I am and the way I handled the situation and he'll always be the "homie" until I have a boyfriend who doesn't want us around each other. It's almost as if we have a bond that refuses to break. It can get quite confusing and people are probably wondering how do I keep myself from falling back in love. It's really not that hard. I mean yeah our good times will definitely out weigh the bad times, but the moments that made me realize he wasn't what I needed stood out way more. I will admit that we don't have the most innocent relationship, but he doesn't have my heart anymore.

Plus, I have someone new that treats me exactly how I deserve to be treated and sure he's a million miles away, but I wouldn't risk losing him to be in a hell that is around the corner. I'm not needy for anyone's company or acceptance, so I have no problem being single.

I'm not saying that my ex and I will never get back together because I simply don't know what the future holds, but I can tell you this I wont settle. Even though sometimes I am my happiest with my ex he couldn't commit himself to me and I deserve my own man. I refuse to share with another female. Maybe if more females knew their self worth they would understand exactly where I am coming from.


Saturday, April 10, 2010

Nicki meets XXL

Now, many of you all hate her, but I happen to love her, so just shut up right now. Nicki Minaj's new photo shoot for XXL happens to be a wonderful work of art. You can't deny her right now. I mean if you can't respect this shoot you just have nothing else to do but hate. Just support her and get the magazine.